Vanessa Valadez (28), Andy Klingensmith (24) Chicago, IL
A recently available transplant to Chicago, Andy came across Vanessa at a concert last summer time. Vanessa instantly expressed her long-time desire to have a relationship that is open and after 3 months together, the 2 began earnestly checking out non-monogamy.
Citing psychological state as a huge determining factor in her own choice to follow non-monogamy, Vanessa describes that she had been insecure and jealous inside her past, monogamous relationships, though she had always been interested in learning being available. In belated 2017, she claims she started using antidepressants and became a «entirely various person» one sans insecurity and envy, along with possessing of a «larger, much much much deeper knowledge of the thing I desired.» Afterwards, she decided that she ended up being prepared to pursue non-monogamy something which she states she explained to Andy once they met up listed here summer time.
«clearly, the older I have, the less monogamy makes sense if you ask me,» Vanessa claims, describing that she actually is constantly just truly liked getting to learn individuals and developing relationships whether they be platonic or romantic with them. «I do not comprehend limiting my partner or being limited if my partner is devoted to me personally. Leer más